vcl: use events for epoll/select/read/write

Have vcl poll and wait on the event message queues as opposed to
constantly polling the session fifos. This also adds event signaling to
cut through sessions.

On the downside, because we can't wait on multiple condvars, i.e., when
we have multiple message queues because of cut-through registrations, we
do timed waits.

Change-Id: I29ade95dba449659fe46008bb1af502276a7c5fd
Signed-off-by: Florin Coras <fcoras@cisco.com>